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Fashion Cycle
by The Avant Guardian.

Terrance N. Shelton hails from the town of Gainesville, Georgia; nestled in the foothills of the Chattahoochee mountain range. His knowledge of fashion is predicated on years of service in the retail industry in various capacities. As trends continue to evolve, Shelton seeks to acquaint consumers with trendy adaptations of timeless fashion staples. His goal is to render his readers smarter shoppers by providing a wholistic approach to fashion "do's and don'ts", fine-tuned for the individual.

Mind Yer Manners
Fit, proportion and style are...
A Sense of Self & Appropriatness

News Flash
by Torraine Walker
Torraine Walker is an aspiring Model/Actor/Musician/Writer who's been into fashion since he was a child, and he has the pictures to prove it. Hit him up with fly fashion news at tglamourboy@aol.com


Male Grooming
Fashion After 9-11

High Brow
kebo
You should know who the hell I am by now!

Queer Eye & The Metrosexual
Issues With Plaid
Global Village
$-$$$-$ off the rack vs.
Seeing Red
It's A "G" thang
Going Casual
2 Cuff Or Not




Tres Chic
by Angel 1
 
Angel 1 is simply a supa dupa fly chick with mad style. She is a global traveler and drops ascience on us as to what she sees when she travels the world..


Who's She?


 
 

an evolution. it's not what you wear, but how you wear it...own yours!


March

Friday March 2

Au Courant :: The Tasty Edition
The Midnight Socialite has been killing the ATL fashion and event scene this past year. His paparazzi website appropriately titled www.themidnightsocialite.com  has been evidence of every fresh party going down in the ATL. He has been flown everywhere from LAS VEGAS to MIAMI to capture the nightlife all the hottest industry events and parties. A few months ago, he started his own monthly bash in his hometown...  Au Courant happens every 1st Friday based around Midnight's love for fashion photography.  This is a serious bash with the right DJ's and DESIGNERS. Midnight's forward themed fashion installations have been nothing but a true success and a breath of fresh air. (Every 1st Friday)9:00 PM - 3:00 AM, 21+ FREE BEFORE 11pm / $10 after. The Mark. 70 Poplar , Atlanta, GA 30303




Saturday March 3

Nikita Masters Trunk Show, designer and owner of Nikita Lynn Handbags, will be hosting a trunk show for her 2007 Collection this Saturday, March 3 from 4 to 7 p.m. at Vino Libro in Glenwood Park, Atlanta.  There will also be a small selection of one-of-a-kind, handbags from past seasons available.  Bags will be sold at cost or below!  As with every collection, each bag fits Nikita’s signature “modern vintage” style and is uniquely individualistic.  Balancing pretty with practical, and matched style with sensibility, each charming bag exudes its own personality. To take sneak a peek of Nikita’s 2007 collection, visit www.nikitalynndesigns.com. Vino Libro, 933 Garrett Street, Glenwood Park




Thursday March 8

PIERCE MARTIN invites you to A WAREHOUSE SALE! 3 DAYS ONLY! Mark your Calendars! Designer Days, Thursday, March 8; Friday, March 9 9 am – 5 pm. Open to the Public Saturday, March 10 9 am – 2 pm. Pierce Martin 99 Armour Dr. Atlanta, GA 30324. Save on items including: Tables and Chairs, Sofas, Occasional Seating, Antiques, Lamps, Overstocked Inventory, and much, much more…. Come explore!


Thursday March 15

Design Thursdays @ ADAC. Please join Schumacher as they welcome Susan North, vice president of design, for a presentation of Schumacher’s Spring 2007 collection.  This collection continues the company’s emphasis on updated, luxurious design and for the first time ever, all of these new fabrics will be offered exclusively under the Schumacher brand.  Be among the first to see new fabrics from Schumacher Classic, Schumacher Modern and Schumacher Elements. Immediately following, a light lunch will be served in the Schumacher Showroom, Suite 503A.  Please RSVP to Therese Birkbeck at 404-261-2742. 11:00 a.m.


Thursday March 22

Tie The Knot. A boutique bridal experience on Thursday, March 22nd from 6-9pm at the Biltmore Ballrooms in Midtown. The evening will be full of inspiring ideas, fresh looks and new twists for engaged couples to discover. Guests will enjoy complimentary wine, champagne, a cocktail buffet from Affairs to Remember and can register to win giveaways from some of Atlanta's top wedding professionals. Advance tickets are $10 with the promotional code "earlybird" at checkout.


Friday March 23

J Nelson Presents:Ann Getty. Special Keynote Presentation at 10:00 a.m. ADAC Conference Center, Suite 214. As founder of the Ann Getty House collection, Ann Getty is an interior designer fluent in many styles and periods.  She is known for sourcing her vast array of objects and opulent materials from across the globe.  Her strong interest in anthropology and archaeology has led her to engage in the development and recognition of craftsmen as well as the preservation of their skills.  Her furniture collection features original designs and authentic reproductions inspired by the world-renowned Getty collection.  Ann Getty’s line of furnishings and her interior design business have been featured in Architectural Digest, House & Garden, Veranda, Town & Country and W magazine.  The Ann Getty House collection is represented by J Nelson - Florida.  Mrs. Getty looks forward to working with J Nelson - Atlanta as well.  Please RSVP to J Nelson, 404-477-2225.

The Getaway Gala, the third annual benefit for The Marcus Institute, will be held on Friday, March 23, 2007 from 7:30pm-11pm at the Biltmore Ballrooms. The fun- filled evening will feature beer and wine, terrific hors d’oeuvres from Divine Events Catering, music by the Bradley Cole Smith Band plus a silent auction packed with travel, dining, spa temptations and more. Tickets for the event, priced $75 in advance, $90 at the door and $250 for patron packages, are on sale at www.marcusgetawaygala.org.


Saturday March 24

The Style Scene:Trunk Show welcomes you and your entourage to an afternoon trunk show filled with exclusive offerings in beauty, designer apparel, jewelry and accessories. Gather your girlfriends to join other successful, upscale professionals for a girls outing of shopping and "Big Girl" treats like massages, pedicure/manicure while dining on savory and exotic East African food and tempting wine and martinis. Come and indulge in the boutique shopping at BB (bargain basement) prices. To best accommodate vendors cash is preferred. Complimentary goody bags will go to guests who invite ten+ friends and bring a minimum of five girlfriends to the Style Scene Trunk Show. To reserve your goody bag, please cc us (stylescene@yahoo.com) and to pick up your goody bag, bring a printed copy of the e-mail with you.


April

Friday April 27

2007 ATL:MODERN HOME TOUR. ATL:Modern, Atlanta’s thought leader in the promotion of modern design, announces their first annual modern home tour scheduled to commence on Friday evening, April 27, with tour dates set for Saturday, April 28 and Sunday, April 29. The program aims to promote a wide variety of contemporary architecture in Atlanta—all with a modernist’s point of view. The 2007 ATL:Modern Home Tour will focus on showcasing exemplary examples for living modern through lifestyle, architecture, interior design, and landscaping. Homes range from the classic postmodern to the state-of-the-art contemporary. Opening Night Social Mixer: Friday, April 27, 7:30-9:30pm at Context showroom in Downtown. Tour Days: The tour itself will take place on Saturday, April 28 and Sunday, April 29. 11:00-4:00 p.m. on each day. For ticket and general information including sponsors list, visit www.atlmodern.com/home tour or email bernard@atlmodern.com.


May

Sunday May 6

Designs of Hope, the U.S. Fund for UNICEF’s annual fashion show fundraiser in Atlanta, will be held at the InterContinental Hotel in Buckhead on Sunday, May 6, at 6 p.m. This year’s co-chairs, Mohammed Akbar, Charlene Crusoe-Ingram and Jada Loveless, have partnered with Saks Fifth Avenue to host an event filled with entertainment, silent and live auctions, and signature fashion shows presented by prestigious designers and retailers. All proceeds from the Designs of Hope event will benefit UNICEF programs which provide care and support for children orphaned and left vulnerable by HIV/AIDS. Launched in 2002, this program has raised more than $1.8 million to support the U.S. Fund for UNICEF. Sadly, more than 15 million children have lost one or both parents to HIV/AIDS.


June

Friday June 8

23rd Annual March of Dimes Dining Out. “Dining Out is one of the best culinary events in this city,” said event Chair Bert Weiss.  “In addition to the great food and awesome people involved, the event is also special because it benefits the March of Dimes.  When my son Hayden was born prematurely four years ago, the March of Dimes worked to ensure that he would have a healthy outcome.  What better reason to party than to help save more of Georgia’s babies that are born too soon?” Filled with first class dining and endless fun, the evening begins with dinner – including food, wine and service – for a party of 10 guests donated and hosted at one of dozens of Atlanta’s finest restaurants.  Each restaurant’s chef creates a special meal just for the table’s host and guests. To ensure a table at one of the city’s finest restaurants, it is best to make reservations early when the restaurants are announced and the tables go on sale Thursday, February 15, 2007! After dinner, guests will continue the celebration by getting lost in the exotic atmosphere of Lotus Lounge, this year’s after-party location for entertainment and cocktails.  The party will include an evening of exciting entertainment, dancing, food and much more with event Chair Bert Weiss of the All the Hits Q100’s The Bert Show!  After-party tickets are included with the table purchase and individual ticket sales to the after-party will be announced soon. Chair: Bert Weiss, host of All the Hits Q100’s The Bert Show. Vice Chair: Ginair McKerrow, Social Worker/Philanthropist
Honorary Chair: Sean McGinnis, Publisher Atlanta Magazine. 7:00 pm: Dinner at Participating Restaurants (To Be Announced Soon). 9:00-11:00pm: After Party at Lotus Lounge. Tables for ten are either $1,000 or $1,500 depending on the restaurant selection. For information on hosting a table or purchasing tickets visit http://www.marchofdimes.com/georgia or contact Natalie Holloway at 404-350-9800 x 203.


July


Fashion Cycle by The Avant Guardian.

Mind Yer Manners
By The Avant Guardian.
(03.05.07)

This morning I woke to a news report that began something like this ... "a woman sustained second and third degree burns at a fast food restaurant when a cashier threw hot grease on her". Surely, you jest, I thought. But as it turns out, the woman's daughter spat upon the cashier which initially resulted in the clerk throwing a fountain drink on the woman. Apparently the woman's rant continued and THEN the cashier returned to finish the job with, well... you know the rest.

So, "how", might you ask, "does this pertain to fashion?" Patience, grasshopper... I'm getting there. The corrolary betwixt the two is simply that no matter where you go- be it the grocery store, the bank, a clothing store or, in this case a fast food restaurant- it is important that you treat the people working there with respect. Your service depends on it.

Case in point, some time ago I had a customer who behaved so badly that I ultimately refused her my service and differed to the store owner. The customer then proceeded to annoy the owner so badly that he, too, wound up in a heated altercation with her. So, while I don't advocate the use of scalding hot petroleum products in conflict resolution, I certainly understand being pushed to the limit by an overzealous patron. I only wondered how this woman navigated her way through the rest of her comings and goings- and I speculate that she most likely behaves this way everywhere she goes.

So here are a few tips to keep you from sustaining a "hot oil treatment" of your own:

FIRST AND FOREMOST, FORGET YOU EVER HEARD THE EXPRESSION, "THE CUSTOMER IS ALWAYS RIGHT." I tried to do some research on this one, but the most I could assume is that this was a strategy used by store management to foster good treatment towards patrons of a business. It is NOT, however, a mantra to be taken literally and wielded when you are not getting your way. The very premiss that there is some mystical vortex where you will ALWAYS be right is erroneous at best. Simply put, if you're a nutcase outside in the "real world", you will most likely continue to be one on the other side of a store threshold. For instance, if you believe that 1+2=5, you are incorrect... and if you step inside a store and this continues to be your belief... then you will, in turn, continue to be WRONG! See how that works, Sparky?

SPEAK WHEN SPOKEN TO. This, too, seems utterly rediculous to have to say, but trust me, some of you don't get it. You see, those "greeters" that you ever so hastily thwarted when you entered the store, are surprisingly the same people whom you will end up asking, "do you have this in a size ten?", some two minutes after you feigned their welcome! How would you assist someone when you've just said hello to them and they looked at you blankly and wouldn't even muster a smile? Not everyone who says hello to you is trying to get into your pants, Stella... heck, for some of you, there's barely enough room for YOU in there! People think that because a clerk is "working" that it is their obligation to give them good service, when in fact, it is YOUR demeanor that will determine the type of service you will receive. Being kind to a sales clerk costs you nothing, while not being kind could cost you a good bit. Salespeople know all of the inside info, and your courtesy might prompt them to tip you off about the sale next week on that expensive skirt you've been eying. I've even had clerks apply "two for" coupons that I wouldn't have known about, simply because I took the time to ask "how are YOU doin' today?"

DON'T WASTE OUR TIME. Only you know if you are prepared to make a purchase or if you're simply browsing with no intent to buy. Are you allowed... well, yeah... but tying up a salesperson with lots of questions, trying on garments, and laboring over a purchase decision that your wallet has already made for you is really not appropriate. It's kinda like walking into Waffle House during lunch hour, sitting alone at a table for four, and proceeding to write your thesis while ordering only coffee and feeling no inclination to tip. You have just tied up restaurant real estate that probably would have generated a fair amount of tips in the three arduous hours that you sat there holding it hostage! Likewise, if your salesperson works on commission, you could be keeping them from assisting someone that IS actually going to make a purchase...TODAY!

DON'T THINK YOU'RE SLICK. You know full well that the garment that you spritzed in bad cologne, sweated through on the dance floor and then snagged on the girl-at-the bar's engagement ring when she flicked you off, was not damaged when you bought it! So don't try to convince us that your elaborate tale of how you "got it home and were shocked to find", is true. Nevermind that you have waited five months since your purchase to attempt your return, and we are now selling garments for an entirely different season! You would be better off just eating the loss, or simply asking what dry cleaner will be best at removing your stench from the garment. We've heard it all... and if you recall your fourth grade teacher's response to the ever famed "my dog ate my homework" cliche, then you should recall the look that we're giving you.

CLEAN UP YOUR MESS. Let's assume that you actually did need to try on fourteen pairs of jeans to find "just the right fit". Question is, was it necessary for you to leave the remaining thirteen pair balled in a pile on the dressing room floor? You've seen the signs in kitschy venues that say "your mother doesn't work here". Imagine that applies everywhere you go. Truthfully, it's no one's "responsibility" to tidy up after you. It comes as a hazard from doing the job, and whether you believe it or not, "cleaning up after slovenly customers" doesn't appear on the job description. If you can't re-hang them, at least fold them neatly and hand them to someone who can. Oh, and when you return to your office in your nifty new jeans... that pile of paperwork that will take you until lunch tomorrow to finish...is from us!

KEEP YOUR CHILD WITH YOU. So often I've seen people enter a store and release their children into the wild as if they were hounds after prey. There should never come a time when your salesperson should have to discipline YOUR child. Stores are like playgrounds for children. They want to explore and see what's there just as much as you do. The difference is (or at least the hope is) that you know that the $600 silk chiffon gown isn't a swingset. As cute as it may appear when your little one clomps over to you in a pair of Manolos that are several sizes too large, we cringe because the potential for damaging those shoes is eminent. Keeping watch over your children is, I'm sure, a never ending task. Just be sure that it doesn't end in my store, lest they be returned to you sauteed with a side of fava beans.


Fit, proportion and style are abandoned for mere coverage!
By The Avant Guardian.
(01.16.04)

At the risk of sounding( if not being) completely politically incorrect, I've concluded that we Americans have a problem of exponential proportions. Strangely enough this seems to have a direct correlation to our exponential portions...of food that is. Suffice to say that, in a word, we are a "fat" society. And I'm not just spouting some unfounded gibberish here. The good folks over at the Centers for Disease Control (yes, Sparky, they've termed obesism a "disease") support my suspicions with hard, cold, blubbery facts.

The harsh reality is that Americans are disproportionately larger than our counterparts in other countries. Despite the fact that some of them are quite literally starving, our consumption rates are alarming in comparison to countries where rich foods and leisurely lifestyles are quite common. One in every five Americans is considered "overweight." Even our children are overweight. Our supposed obliviousness to their caloric intake, fueled by junk food and paired with a marked decrease in physical activity, has left them outweighing foreign children throughout the world.

So what, might you ask, does any of this have to do with current fashion? Ah, there's the rub between your heavily dimpled thighs! I'm quite certain that this will provolk many of you to run (perhaps even wobble) over to your PC and pen an email of in defense of your billowing bodies...but I will defer to my first column, in which I issue my disclaimer "I am neither friend nor foe." I'm simply stating the facts...and that is that THE LARGER YOU BECOME, THE HARDER IT BECOMES TO CLOTH YOU (FASIONABLY).

As a connoisseur of clothing, a buyer, and salesman, I feel fairly confident in saying that fashion becomes harder to attain, more costly and less appealing when fitting a person of larger proportions. It's almost as if designers throw up their hands at the sight of an obese person. Fit, proportion and style are abandoned for mere coverage.

So what should we do about this problem, you ask? Well, the solution begins and ends with you. Let me appeal to your sense of sheer narciscism alone...the body you put your clothes on is the foundation for how your clothes will appear. It stands to reason that if your body is disproportionate, unfit and slovenly that your clothes will have to be modified to accommodate your features and will likewise take on a similar appearance. For instance, how many times have you seen this image...picture someone who carries their weight around their middle, but their extremities (arms & legs) are still somewhat slender. This person's slacks will have to be cut larger in the waist to accommodate their girth, but seldom do you see it done well. Instead, they wind up looking like one of the Ooompa Loompas from Willy Wonka's factory, with flab overhanging their belts and tiny little appendages that seem misplaced on their bodies.

Come on folks, it's really not rocket science! I'm not here to "fat bash", but somebody has to be real with you! Your bellies protruding over your low-rise jeans is not cute! Nor should we be subjected to the blubber of those of you who will shamelessly beach yourselves on some sandy shoreline this Summer. You remember what it feels like to don your bathing suit and KNOW that it looks good on you, don't you? Well, the time to get in shape is nigh! Even our esteemed editor himself has heard the call to get in shape... and he, too, has found out what I've known for the better part of ten years now. You just feel better when you commit to some type of physical regimen in your life! Be it walking, jogging, skiing, tennis, aerobics, spinning, yoga, or just plain old bodybuilding...the true benefit is one of health. But, looking good is one heck of an incentive. I, personally, have abandoned the weighing scale for the mirror instead. Your clothes are the perfect gauge for how well your workout is progressing. The fit is always the tell-tale sign of what you need you spend a little more time doing (crunches) and NOT doing (bingeing).

In the interim, let me suggest a few tips for those of you fighting the battle of the bulge:

-Stay away from form fitted clothing- things containing lycra or spandex should only be worn to the gym. Otherwise you call more attention to your weight problem by looking as if someone stuffed you into a sausage casing.

-Avoid fluffy clothes that add poundage to your frame. That goose filled jacket you just bought is more prone to make you look like the Michelin man (not to mention the sound it makes when you walk)

-Stay away from large patterns in clothing (stripes, polka dots, plaids, etc.). They only call more attention to your size and you probably look like some kid tagged you while you were sleeping.

-Seek clothes that ACTUALLY fit you. Don't walk into Bloomingdale's and tell the salesman that you normally wear a 36 waist if you know that's not the case. Allow them to size you...chances are, if they've done this awhile they knew you weren't telling the truth anyway! Besides, accuracy in sizing will eliminate things like pleats that pull open and buttons that look as if they're ready to pop off (how embarrassing).

-Wear proper foundation garments. Your boobs need not dangle at your waistline if there's a good bra to be found! Trust me, the results are well worth the agony of finding the one that fits!

Lastly, I'd just like to say that obesity is no laughing matter. Things like heart disease, diabetes, bad joints and even certain types of cancer can result from this condition. Begin to consider your health when you sit down to consume that deep fried delicacy you'll undoubtedly have for lunch tomorrow. Remember, "an ounce of prevention, is worth a pound of cure."




A Sense of Self & Appropriateness
By The Avant Guardian.
(01.22.04)


Imagine yourself well attired, well groomed and totally in tune with current fashion while observing complete dedication to your own sense of style. This is a task much easier said than done to more than a few. The good news is that from this moment forward you will have a resource to reference in your time of need (i.e., me).

It probably wouldn't hurt for me to introduce myself...insofar as I will henceforth and forevermore be your personal style guru. My knowledge of style is avant guard at best. It is predicated on years of service in the retail industry, watching trends ebb and flow. In this time, I've learned what most of you over the age of sixteen have long since ascertained, and that is... fashion is cyclical. The trick is maintaining a sense of self and appropriateness in a world of ever changing looks and adaptations.

For example...my body type is ectomorphic-meaning slender and lean. For years, I steered clear of fitted, body conscious tailoring and opted for baggier, loose fitting garb. My thought was that I was somehow camouflaging my slim build with the ambiguity of the fuller fit. Not so. In fact, I probably drew more attention to my thinness by looking as if I were swimming in some older siblings hand-me-downs that I had not quite grown into. I have since learned to own my narrow limbs (particularly in the advent that Dr Atkins is making a fortune off the people trying desperately to get to where I seemingly reside). Now I buy my pants to actually fit my waist, shirts that won't allow me to gain an additional person, and I confidently walk amongst the rest of the "baggy boys" without the slightest apprehension of how I look in comparison.

But in my jaunt down the local catwalks of society, I witness so many who are still in a quandry about finding their fashion niche. Burly boys who have forgotten their fullness, bustier babes who have gone braless, even skinny-minis who have given new meaning to the term "scantily clad." Which brings me to my next observation...some of you just don't know when a look doesn't suit you. Just because they sell low-rise jeans at every boutique in town does not mean that we all have the bootys that belong in them. In a strange parallel, some people are like those poor tone-deaf troubadores who shamelessly audition for American Idol, only to be notified promptly by Simon that they could not carry a tune in a humvee. Moreover, their "friends and family" plan has apparently expired, because no friends of mine would dare let me walk in close proximity without telling me how tired my threads were. Nor should they have to if I reside with a mirror in sight.

So, first and foremost, understand that I am not friend or foe. I am solely sworn to the notion of a more style savvy society (try saying that three times, fast). Sometimes, no doubt, you will find my reparte somewhat scathing, but I assure you that it is simply a means to an end...more importantly, an end to plumber butt in low-rise Levi's. I will try, as best I can, to provide parameters to those of you seeking solace with your wardrobe. But, here too, my guidelines may or may not adhere to traditional standards of dress. Quite frankly, some of the stodgy standards have become outdated and and need to be abandoned along with your acid-washed Z. Cavaricci jeans...yes, this means you, Sparky.

That said, let the games begin! We welcome your questions and comments here at the Hushbox (INSERT EMAIL ADDRESS WITH DESIGNATION SUFFIX HERE), but until we gain the confidence of your query, I'll simply continue to comment on your fashion fauxpas as they are witnessed...heaven knows, we'll have no shortage of material to write about!




Male Grooming Is Out In The Open
(02.25.02)

While shaving and washing my face this morning, I thought back to when I could wash my face with soap and water and I'd be set for the day. I had about five different products in front of me today. Went into a drugstore downtown to pick up some shaving cream, and noticed a linebacker-sized brotha, bubble jacket, skullcap and all, take 3 minutes to pick out a bottle of lotion. This morning, a friend and me had a 15-minute debate about what shirts would highlight the light gray color of a pair of jeans.

News Flash: Men Care About How They Look. And Yes, most of them are straight.

It seems that the majority of men are finally able to admit that they like to indulge and take care of their bodies, like women have been free to do since time began. Since the late 90's, there's been a huge reawakening of men's open interest in fitness, fashion and style that hadn't been seen since the dot-com vibe almost killed it off. Men want to look good again, and are taking major steps to do so.

Really, this is nothing new. Ancient Egyptian men and women wore the same amount of cosmetics. In Northern Nigeria, Wodaabe tribesman court wives by making up their faces to compete in beauty contests. The women judge and then choose their lovers and husbands. In the 1700's, gentlemen of the European royal houses and aristocracy wore wigs and powdered their faces ghostly white. Mods in the 60's wore mascara and lacquered hair to complement their tailored suits as they buzzed through London on their scooters. And fans of Glam Rock and New Romantic Disco went makeup crazy in the 1970's and 80's.

Traditionally, Western society's opinion of a man who cared about his appearance beyond a shower and shave was that he was vain at best, and effeminate at worst. Fly-Guys have as many enemies as admirers. But gender roles are so fluid now that many men feel free to indulge in spoiling themselves without having their masculinity challenged. Although the image of leisure-class fops and gay club kids indulging in vanity still lingers, more than likely the male cosmetics user will be the aging corporate exec looking to project the image of a sleek Alpha male in the boardroom, the baby boomer looking to reaffirm his youthfulness, and 20 to 30-something singles not afraid to spend money on looking good on dates and in clubs.

Europe, especially the UK, is far ahead of the rest of the world on this trend. British men spent £585 Million in 1999 on cosmetics. Several companies like MAC, Clinique and Aramis have full product lines for their male European consumers. The market is definitely there, and US manufacturers are watching. Last year, American men spent $3.5 Billion on personal hygiene and grooming supplies. L'Oreal Shiseido has a men's hair color line, Estee Lauder is developing a male "self improvement kit" that looks very much like a makeup case. And Nair just came out with a new hair removal cream, for men. All these products have been sufficiently butched-up to appeal to male sensibilities.

Another trend, that most women are probably high-fiving themselves over, is that the media's image of the ideal male has finally caught up with its ideas of the ideal woman. Flip through any men's magazine and you'll see clothing ads peopled by dandified, waifish male models. MTV, BET, & VH-1 is a parade of photogenic boy bands, thugged-out rappers, and angry hard rockers, all perfectly stylized for your viewing pleasure. Even the CEOs on the covers of Fortune and Inc. have a veteran Hollywood actor vibe going on in their pictures. So now men have to compete with women, and each other in the narcissism contests. The message, as always, is: Be stylish, be pretty, be cool, and the world is yours.

For most of the 20th century, men defined their self-image, and self-worth, by their trophies: Their jobs, cars, big homes and breadwinner status. By the 80's, the sexual revolution had leveled most of these formerly male strongholds. Those trophies don't hold the clout they once had now that women can acquire them too. Now even trophy wives are trading in their older men for younger ones.

Maybe the male body is the last trophy.


Fashion after 9-11
By Torraine Walker
11/29.01

After 2 months of WTC footage and war reports, everyone seems to want a sense of normalcy. People are starting to go out again and enjoy themselves, but some things have changed. The attacks, coupled with a recession, have sent many people back to a basic, almost minimalist style of dressing, reflected in the black and slate gray being worn everywhere. It's almost like people are subconsciously still going through a collective mourning period. Women are pulling out their ankle length hooded wool shawls from last year, and these seem to be the unofficial uniform for them to wear while sightseeing and shopping. A lot of working people are rediscovering their suits and dressing up again for the office. The decline has put an end to the ''whatever" dress code of the dot-coms. With the uncertain economy, companies are into displaying their professionalism and stability.

People are getting more subdued in their use of the flag. You don't see as many of them sticking out of baseball caps and backpacks. Now you're more likely to see someone wearing a Ralph Lauren or Hilfiger T-shirt with flag logos or as some women do in clubs, wearing black T's with glitter flag designs tied in front or cut into a half-shirt. Senior execs and CEO's are sporting Stars and Stripes pins on their jacket lapels. One thing I see is that advertisers are using a wider variety of people to sell their products, and reinforce the fact that America is a multicultural society. Perrier, Jaguar, and practically every magazine issue since October have more Black, Latin, Asian and biracial people in their ads. There's also been a rise in the use of different body types. Lee Blalock, fashion stylist and owner of SPI Clothing, told me, "If you watched the Victoria's Secret fashion show, the models used were a wider spectrum. The use of models minus voluptuous bodies and tattoos was an attempt to appeal to all types of women." Hopefully these trends will continue.

Glamour is slowly trying to reassert itself. But glamour is found more in details and material combinations than in ostentation. Leather, silk and velvet are having studs and embroidered designs added to them, along with brighter colors to give them different flavors than the usual black and brown. The Victoria's Secret show on ABC pulled in 12.4 million viewers, and even a scaled-down and relatively sober New York Fashion Week had plenty of sex appeal and innovation to accompany the patriotism. These may be signs that people are ready to rediscover high fashion, but with everyone still trying to find their way after so many successive traumas, and public taste in limbo the way it is, the only thing certain is that the rules have changed. It'll be interesting to see how designers plan to mix creative vision with the economic and social realities of post-attack America. "We're renewing out appreciation for our basic rights and privileges," said Blalock, "among them, the right to express ourselves through art and fashion."




Street Wear in Japan
By Stephanie Deakins
06/01.01

Before traveling to Japan I thought that all the fashion would be very progressive and interesting. For years I have followed Miyake, Japanese artists such as Shindo and a fabric line called Nuno. So finally making the trek to Japan, I was very intrigued to see what the average woman would wear shopping or going to dinner.

To give a broad summary fashion right now- it's a blend between the 50s and the 80s. The typical woman is always wearing stiletto heels with a bag almost larger than her, and preferably a brand such as Gucci, Prada or Channel.

Almost all the women have their hair lightened ranging from light brown to bleached yellow. Japanese women have the uncanny ability to make everything very girly. My favorite example was a skirt I saw in camouflage; it was pleated, chiffon and mid-calf. I was very tempted to buy it, but it has been too done in the states for the past couple of years.

There were a few things that I thought should have been left in the 50s and 80s. First from the fifties, the calf length skirts. It was very rare to see women in short skirts; the most common length was right above the knee or calf length. Most Japanese women are very conservative when it comes to showing skin, compared to most western women. It is common for women to dress in layers even in the summer, although the layers are then done in sheer fabrics.

Several items I thought should have been left in the 80s, but maybe it is still too close for me to return. I was surprised to see clip on fox tails for your belt. Visors, pastels (especially for men), and side ponytails I have done without. Rugby shirts worn with tight stone washed jeans and converse tennis shoes were a common outfit for college kids. Accessories like terry cloth armbands and small pins to wear on rugby shirts, I found amusing.

Even though the stilettos the Japanese women wore where fly, I don't know how these women could walk all day in them, and women in Paris and New York do work it. I bought several pair - and like I said women in Japan are girly. Flowers, bows, polka dots and jewels were a must for fashionable heels. My other favorite was their selection of belts, the bigger the better seemed to be the mind set. Worn over a button down shirt with a skirt or a crisp shirtdress, the belt gave nice definition to the waist.

I like the oversized bags but not in the name brands, that reminded me too much of the 80s decadence. The younger girls would carry bags made of silks sometimes plain or printed, and a few had what looked like military bags. Fanny packs are very popular and in their normal form I find them very repulsive but the Japanese have changed the look completely. My two favorite forms both look like belts from the front. One looks like an old, thick, nylon military belt from the front and the back looks like an ammunition pouch but the fabric used for the back is a toile de Jouy in brown on white. The second looks once again looks like a belt from the front but this one is a nice polished leather and on the back is a flat purse. An evening clutch is what it reminded me of and the purse can be slid off and the belt worn by itself. Both of the transformed fanny packs were worn low on the hips, looking like it's about to fall off.

Lastly I really enjoyed their jean skirts. All the jean skirts are made with stretch fabric but they look very Spanish. Most of them have ruffles that are a-symmetrical from front to back, like tango dancers. Many start a little above the knee, although some are long and done with fish tails.

All in all Japanese women have an interesting take on western fashion. Even though it was not what I had expected it still influenced my view of clothing. Clothing in Japan is used more for identifying with a group where in the West it is used to show individuality. So when something is in style, it is everywhere and can become almost overwhelming.


Issues
By A Hushbox Hunnie

I have issues with plaid.

Really deep seated angst ridden issues with plaid. My therapist and I have been working on it. We think that there was some early trauma, and plaid was involved. along with paisley. don't even try that one! I've begun medication, but it doesn't stop the nightmares. And lately, even the slightest thing can trigger a panic attack - God!

Just the other day when I was in haverty's looking for a dinette set I stumbled into the 'country' line of sofa beds and it was horrible!! I was so embarrassed. They had to call my mother. And now that I think about it, I do think there is a connection between plaid, paisley and sofa beds. whatever it was that whacked me so bad, hmmmm, I wonder if it was when we lived in that trailer park? I know when i was very very young, I had a plaid bear that disappeared. and it makes me sad to think i will never be able to visit scotland. It's caused so much damage already in my life, -- are you sure you want to do this to me?

For God's sake, I never even got on the pill till I was in my 30's because all along I thought they were saying Plaid Parenthood! jesus, it could have resulted in countless unwanted pregnancies. the only thing that gives me solace is to know i'm not the only one. it's true. I looked it up and there is a word for us - plaidophobes. it means 'an irrational fear of multiple small squares most often found in obnoxious colors, in the vicinity of sofa beds and trailers. people who are most susceptible to this disorder came of age in the early 70's when there was an explosion in the use of plaids, as well as paisleys, in the cultural scene.

Media pop stars such as Shirley Jones and David Cassidy promoted the fashion hysteria as did countless other well intending but misguided purveyors of scratchy or sticky shapeless garments, including but not limited to knee socks, "coolouts", and ear muffs.' so you see kebo, all I can do is try to hold on and hope for a cure. I know they've been doing research but it is competitive to get the funding. We are up against more glamorous causes. You know the ones I mean. But believe me, those are superficial whining compared to our pain. So yeah, go ahead. come on. Just don't hold me responsible for whatever happens.




Queer Eye for The Straight Guy & The Metrosexuals..
October 20, 2003
by kebo

There have been a few things that I want to get of my chest, especially as it pertains to the media’s fascination with Gay America and their attributes to style & wellness. First it was Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, and the assumption that all gay men know how to dress, and now it’s the rage over men going to the spa, Metrosexuals....What’s wrong with a man, gay or straight wanting to go to the spa to take care of himself without society having to place a label on him? Personally, the type of women I date hopefully enjoys having a nice set of manicured toes to suck on....LOL..

As a straight, stylish and fabulously artistic Black man who is a member of a spa and began going to them long before it was a trend for men, it aint nothing new and I just don’t get the fascination as to why a man who actually takes pride in taking care of his body, mind and the rest, in some sort of way is often associated with having gay tendencies. If a straight man who prides himself on taking care of himself in some twisted way equates him to him having gay tendencies, I say shame of you the believer of the stereotype. Believing such ignorance is more telling of your mindset than of the man who actually cares for himself.

As far as style and the Queer guys on the TV show (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy), I know just as many tacky, and I mean very tack dressed gay men, especially here in Atlanta as I do straight men. The assumption that gay men have more style than straight men or that the aforementioned group is more concerned with their health, and wellness more, just is not true and had you been at last nights Designs of Hope event you would have realized that there is just as much tackiness in the way gay men dress as there is with the way heterosexual men do.

Often times, because of the flamboyancy associated with the gay culture, I personally feel they are allowed a greater freedom to be creative with clothing choices, and because of this, personally I find that when some of those perceived “male fashion divas” fail in their creative fashion endeavors, they fail miserably. I saw a guy last night that I swear had on the tackiest set of drapes that he had converted into a jacket and then threw on his blue glass and guuuuuuuuurl he thought he was it...NOT!

With all this said, and I will close on the subject for I could be here for days discussing men's style or the lack there of, if you need a straight guy to assist you with wardrobe choices, whether you be gay or straight, male or female, call kebo.


global village
kebo

you don't always need 25 pockets, fallout-protective fabrics and 3-in-1 jackets...you just need something smart & simple to keep the rain off....welcome the return of the trench coat...

fer spring and summer...thinkglobal village...influences from india, china & africa mixed with a touch of brightness to create ur INDIVIDUAL look...think clothes and especially jackets which follow the lines of your body, not someone's body u wish u had...jackets offer the possibility to freely express one's personality and ideas...especially with a great pair of jeans...ladies think painted on fellas..relaxed and comfortable ones...fellas...i suggest the girbaud city roper ...don't wash them.,,ladies don't think i'm crazy..but if u can find the type of jeans that the rodeo girls wear..get those..think wrangler or rocky mountain...the jiggy has got to be together to pull them off.

for those of u with a more relaxed dress code and something that translates well from work to play...think kewl, krisp & sexy...the look should be non_ gimmicky and assured...pure and graphic, white as a point of departure, shades of gray, as a point of refrence..blues with hues of color...think all american classics with subtle twist...a great bag or briefcase, great shoes, and other accessories...come c kebo

for u social night butterflies & caterpillars who actually have time to go from work to home to change...think young, rich, modern rockstar...


$-$$$
kebo

$ off the rack suit vs. $$$$ custom suit many of you from time to time have asked personally what the difference is between custom made and off the rack...especially as it pertains to price...well, read on for a clear cut example...

on the rack, a less expensive suit ($99.00, shoes+ shirt and tie included to $400.00) may look just as sharp as an expensive one-but it won't last after you start wearing it. in order to create and to maintain shape, lower-end suits, c above, usually have a man made fabric ironed in between the lining and the fabric, it's called interfacing.

after many dry cleanings, the glue-like substance holding it together starts to get weak and breakdown...that's why when you get your suits back from the dry cleaners, you have that bubble effect happening. in tailored and custom suits, hair canvas is sewn between the outer fabric and the lining of the jacket, which helps preserve it's shape for a long time-all the more reason to choose a suit with a timeless style, not a 7 button single breasted joint that u see these athletes looking crazy in. chances are, the more high-end your suit, the more hand tailoring it's likely to have. for example, 500-700 stitches might be used on the collar alone, which makes for some pretty good odds. even if a stitch breaks or pops, it's not likely that the rest are gonna go boom.

in a cheap suit, you get what you pay for, inferior quality in workmanship and fabric choices that will leave u purchasing quantity vs. quality...if any of the following have happened to your suits lately..an upgrade should be in your future...the seat of your pants are beginning to shine. the thighs in your trousers are looking like they have acne , and your zipper keeps breaking...ur welcome


seeing red
kebo

red red red..think red folks..i know the color symbolizes love, but for sum reason folks seem to be afraid to wear it...for get needing the holidays as an excuse to wear it, incorporate it into ur wardrobe..

fellas, think heavy piled nappy sweaters...

ladies think, long flowing sexy dress...

fellas think custom made tux for the holidays...with red piping down the side, as an option... a skirt as the bottom if u dare

ladies...think minimal makeup, we like seeing ur pretty natural looks, but get jiggy with the hair...and for goodness sakes, don't over accessorize. and ladies. please don't forget to get sum cfmp's in the boot variety...for those nsth, cfmp's translate to come fuck me pumps.


it's a g thang
kebo

ladies...a lil tip..wearing your g string where it is visible, ya know, when u have it pulled really high up so that we can see it above the waistband of your pants or skirt or whatever...is not cute!!!..if ya want folks to see that thang, at least me, hell, invite me over and i'll be more than happy to look @ that thong, "thong thong thong"...what next and who started this trend?

FYI...we also wanna know what defense you have when men compliment u in a most flattering way to yo ego..."yo big batty gul wit da string up u ass, come here now"...use ur best jamacian accent....lol


going casual
kebo

Leanne wrote: > I am fashionably frustrated..... I started a new job a couple of weeks ago and I need to get more dressy. I had been able to wear jeans, dockers, shorts, etc before, but I'm not able to do that now except on Fridays. I DON'T want to go back to suits, hose and heels (and I don't have to), but I can't seem to finda middle ground. Is there one?

kebo wrote: there is a middle ground...depending on where you live and your personal style, this could be easy as hell or difficult as trying to stop george w. bush jrs. presidential campaign...as a jeans and khakis person myself, i speak from experience...there is a way to wear jeans that makes them more appropriate for many offices, think, great shoes, accessories, and functional blouses, a blazer if necessary..the prob folks get into with trying to wear jeans at work, is that they wanna wear them the same way they do when going out or on the weekend..not...

dockers...not unless you are a good old boy working at a vf owned company in greensboro, nc...then and only then shud u wear dockers...lol...think, a nice wet hand or slick finished plain front slim legg or wide leg number..looks especially great when worn with appropriate shoes...heels and flats are appropriate with both, but pay close attention to the type of blouse you wear...don't wear a fab pair of khakis, heels, great accessories and a t-shirt tied up like a pta parent from palestine...do it a lil..you read the mags..take ur lead from there and adjust it to your style..

stay tragically on edge for work, not tragically tired. the one thing not to do is to wear your great khakis and great blouse, accessoried out and then throw a cheap imitation polyester HERMES scarf around your shoulder...this ain't a tennis match...you looked better tying it on your head like a gangsta and shaking the office up a bit...only try that if you work in an entertainment/media office..they shud understand...if they don't..change jobs.

shorts....most of me says don't even go there...shorts?...i don't know of many jobs, especially corporate ones that are gonna let this fly, let alone take u serious on the day u wear shorts...i'm assuming you're talking tailored shorts, gawd hopes you're not referring to the knee length triple pleat variety for i will have to bann you as a hushbox member...please tell me NO!...avoid the shorts...unless they are diasy dukes.


2 cuff or not
kebo

i recently read somewhere that cuffs worn with plain front pants, meaning no pleats was a no no...the thought behind this is logical in saying that cuffs are in pants to anchor pleats...sounds all good and in theory makes sense...but at the same time, it's sort of like saying, white as a color on a web site serves as an empty space when in actuality, it can be a design feature...hmmm...now there is a thought to ponder...word to the wise...be careful where u get ur style advice from..i suggest talking to a tailor, who is from the new school of thought with traditional wisdom or talking to a knowledgeable sales associate at a non tragically trendy store. we also suggest not listening to shock jocks on the morning drive into work who perhaps shop at the mens warehouse outlet, yes outlet...

suggestion...non pleated pants look great when paired with a slim fitting tailored jacket and sandals...as well as with a slim shirt, not a tight tight shirt, but a slim fitting one...throw on sum sandals and strut ur stuff...

the length...we only suggest cuffed non pleated pants with slim leggs...trying to wear a wide leg pant with no pleats and un cuffed might make u look a bit silly...and we wouldn't want that.




Tres Chic
By Angel #1

" WHO's SHE?"
Have u ever stood in a line at a red-roped club, restaurant, or at a tragically hip joint, and Ms. somebody or Mr. some 1 strolls right past? U don't know who he or she is----- but everyone else seems to PSSSSST: Well just a FYI from the staff of the box "

Not every 1 who strolls in the VIP entrance is famous or tragically hip for that matter...", they just carry themselves in a certain way.

SO STRAIGHT FROM THE BOX TO YOU... A FEW COPYCAT TIPS OR TIPPETTES:>>>

U know sistas when you call in for a sick day and end up feeling better after u make the call ?>>> U decide to take a stroll down to your fav mall, be it Lenox or Phipps or Lil 5 Pts. or boutiques up and down the strip. U see some young chic chick, dressed to the nines, with her baby ....having lunch with the rest of her friends and u wonder, wow... must be nice not to work and do this type of stuff everyday...Well here is how to look the part:

DAYTIME " WHO's SHE?"
1. Light-tinted lenses: big shades for the day are a bit too obvious, so snag a pair of subtler Christian Diors or Gucci. (for the pocket minded, grab some others:same effect) bonus: they're plausible at night.

2. Bed-Head Hair: toss your mane, let it flow lightly, no over curling or over processed looks, be free and confident.

3. Baby: The perfect accessory----so it seems in the finer boutiques. Borrow one if you have to and lug her/him around in a Gucci baby carrier. What name do you coo aloud? Can I suggest: Justin, Devon or Zona (tres chic---yeah right)

4. Ostentatiously simple clothing: how about a ABS cashmere tank top & red tab levi's say " Notice how unnoticeable I am?"

5. Prada bowling bag: The Daytime who's she is cheap by no means! Fill the bag with a bottle of extra oxygenated water and a Motorola V-series silver cell phone and say: " My agents swore I'd get this video or part in that flick. (hee, hee)

AFTER DARK "WHO's SHE?"
1. Louis Vuitoon beret: It says, "the bomb french headgear" as well as I didn't get my hair done cause I bought this expensive ass hat so....I'm lettin u have it!

2. Amped makeup: ladies, just enough will do, a little base don't hurt nobody (quote from angel #2) go by the Bobbi Brown, Mac, or somebody's counter and let them show you how to apply it.

3.Original something, darling : Go by a vintage store, yes vintage not THRIFT per our editor. You would be surprised of all of the nice pieces you find. (oh yeah, pulled a burberry right off the rack).

4.PAGER: a Motorola two way pager won't annoy the VIP sitting next to you. Get messages muttering, Ahhhhh, Ray Ray darling!!

5. Snakeskin Jimmy Choo stilettos: Extra height helps you stand out in crowds. Or opt for a too rich to care attitude, but make sure you have your Old Navy flops hidden in the purse of your choice.

Okay, now I know sum of u just didn't get this well...... for the 1's that did....... here's to you......Independent Ladies: Charlie how your angels get down like dat?