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booty call...the terms>>> •want to get laid •i wanna come over and fuck you •it is late at night and i am about to have a visitor whose going to give me the FUCK of my life •somebody be wantin' sex, can be from a significant other, but implies no commitment •someone you know you can call for booty only, without strings, but the calls are ONLY made after at least 1:00am, an usually after drinking. •i have someone else but there is something about you. Can I call you when he messes up again? •drunk, wee hours of the morning, need sex so calling someone who stopped giving it to you at least a month ag0 •he is soooo married/taken; what am I doing?!? •benefits without issues/Drama
do you want to come over to "watch a movie." •that someone (male or female) is going to use their wiles to get 'Busy' •what iÕm conveniently failing to let you know is that the VCR is set up in the bedroom, the candles are lit, and I rented a porn flick for us to get our groove on with.
get your groove on •you're feeling your own power, baby! •don't usually use this unless talking about dancing • i met you recently and I will meet other folks i'll call you - I probably won't; I am the girl (if I didn't give you my number, maybe I don't really want to talk to you0 •to have a little meaningless fun; well, I might give it a shot •depending on who's saying it to whom, maybe go head do yo thang--fuk who you want
i'll call you •if I have nothing better to do •you're never gonna hear from me again • i will contact but NOT tomorrow ...soon.. •i'm not gonna call you, but this is the politically correct thing to say.... •leave me the hell alone •maybe I will, maybe I won't •this didn't work out at all •he will call in 3 weeks and ask me where I have been, if I like him I won't get mad about it •when I have a moment, I'll call you, don't be a bug-a-boo and leave me 600 messages on my celly cell that I have to pay for.
i care about you •if they were showing it, they wouldn't need to say it. •i don't like you but i don't want to hurt your feelings -- the equivalent to let's be friends •i'd visit you in the hospital but you're a drag to party with •your feelings and views are highly appreciated by me •i don't really like you, but i'll keep you til something better comes along •i care about you (if something bad happened to you, I would feel sad. If something good happens to you, I am happy for you.) •means don't get too close because this is just a seasonal thing. •i like you and I hope you don't get into an accident leaving my house •like a younger sister or pet •meaning don't be playing me cuz you got my attention and I don't wanna be yoked around.
i don't date •what she/he is really saying is that she/he relationship hops. jumping from one thing to the other when things stop working for her/him...repeats pattern often, never realizing she's/he's got commitment issues...and perhaps will never realize true long term happiness. •jumps from one relationship to another to justify having sex...
i don't like to go out during the week •dayum! How much more plain can I be? Have YOU ever tried to find a babysitter for two bad-azzed kids in the middle of the week?
i don't know what I'm doing later •means that unless your azz has a plan thatÕs too good to refuseÉ I DO know that IÕm not doing anything with you tonight.
i have a suprise for you •with a smile or frown?? •you're not gonna like this, so i'm gonna sugar coat it •i am going to receive something good because it was selected by someone I care for or it means that his mother is coming for a visit •they've booked a hotel room, or have bought lingerie •i am going to give you something and I think you will like it. •something unexpected (good or bad) is happening to you, don't even try to figure it out •sex or a gift; you suspected he liked you now you are a little bit more certain •baby, I got some good wine, new lingerie and a babysitter...it is on!
i have different priorities right now •his azz is too weak to just come out and say that heÕs not feeling it right now and he wants you to make the decision for him.
i have to get up early in the morning •thanks for the fuck but I don't care enough to stay over •i don't want to spend the night •you can not stay the night, stud. •don't expect me to linger over breakfast with ya baby •i have to get up early in the morning. •get outta here/I gotta get outta here i like hanging out with you - you are getting no play from me •thanks and GOODBYE, already, damn •if itÕs true, I understand cause getting up early sux, if itÕs not true itÕs an excuse to leave •see booty call •i'm not feeling you tonight (cuz if I was, I wouldn't give a shyt bout gettin up...hell, we'd stay up all night!) •i won't do you now, but keep trying, and we might work it out •your blowjobs are rotten
i like hanging out with you •cool, we have fun together •your fun for a roll in the proverbial hay but you are not 'boyfriend/lover' materia •i don't wanna have sex with youl •could be face value, or a subtle disclaimer that they want to keep it light •being with you is fun, enjoyable. •it means that you are not my type •this could turn into something in a few years if no one exciting comes along •you we are only friends •until the person I am waiting for comes along, and I will wait for her, even if I have to wait for them to invent her when I am 95 •you're drama free and you don't embarrass me in public...and you make me laugh my ass off
i like you • i like my car too •i dig your vibe i am into you! •i like you •kinda sweet and grade school style, I wouldn't mind hearing it. •you cool, like one of the fellas or one of the girls •i really like you, unless followed by the word "but" in which case, I don't really like you at all •i really like you but back up a bit, I don't know you that well •you are a nice person, and I'm getting the hots for you •really likes you but afraid to express that or even speak of love
i love you, but i'm not in love with you •chicken shit copout •you're a great person but you don't rock my world •i care for you deeply but I do NOT madly adore you •i've got someone else on the side •what you say when you've stayed too long in the wrong relationship •i love you as a friend, but i don't want to jump you anymore. •i love things about you, but I am not ready to commit to a relationship •you remind me of my bro/sis •i hope you don't get into an accident leaving my house; Bye •i like you but I met some one and I told Êher I was single; gotta get rid of you fast •lets keep fucking, but no commitments, please
i'll drop by later •be wearing something short, lacy and see-through, no panties, and some cfmpÕs...
i'll drop you an email •yeah rightÉ next yearÉ when IÕm bored and donÕt have any other options.
i'm fine •you better figure out why i am pissed at you •to elaborate would mean to have a conversation with you •i'm mad at you, but i want you to figure it out for yourself •she ain't fine, fool. Ask her what's wrong!!!!! •i am OK enough. If something is wrong, I do not feel like discussing it or else I would bring it up •i would be better if you just leave me alone. •i am not fine but want you to leave me the Hell alone •you mean you don't know what you just did? Why do I love you? Did I fall and hit my head? •ask me again, and I'm going to tell you exactly what's wrong with me •he's fantasizing about your best friend
i'm going through a phase right now •the azz was good when I was hitting itÉ but IÕve found something better. Better=freakierÉ she likes anal sex and has a friend whoÕs willing to join us.•Can I get some more? DAYUM I like what IÕve seen so far! BootyÕs good, convoÕs good, youÕve got an imagination, and I LIKE ya.
i'm hooked •can I get some more? DAYUM I like what IÕve seen so far! BootyÕs good, convoÕs good, youÕve got an imagination, and I LIKE ya.
i'm under alot of pressure right now •iÕm about to be evictedÉ my ex (you knowÉ the one I didnÕt tell ya aboutÉ the one I havenÕt yet divorced) is giving me hellÉ I canÕt find a job (IÕve been out of work for 4 months now and canÕt figure out why finding a job on the internet is so dayum hard)É so why are you coming to me with this BULLshiat about why I didnÕt call you last night?
i miss you sooo much •i really do miss you...just being honest •the last woman on the phone didnÕt buy it eitherÉ but IÕm hoping I catch you in a weak moment. can I come by later? you know it was good when we hooked up six months agoÉ
i need to clear my head •i'm trying to find the easiest way to get outta this without hurting anybody •i have had too much to drink. I want to go outside. OR There are too many things making me stressed right now. I need to take a bath or do some yoga. I will not be talking on the phone tonight. Please leave me alone for a minute/evening/week... •leave me alone •you are annoying me GO AWAY •you are working my nerves •i'm diggin you, but we have issues and Lisa just asked me out...I wanna see what she's about!
i need to get my life in order •i can't figure out how to tell you that I don't like you •i'll call you •i need space and time to sort out my thoughts •get the hell away from me (or outta my house)
i need some space •i'll call you •i need room to breathe, emotionally •i'm trying to break up with you [in stages]... •could be many things - this is moving too fast for me, you are smothering me, you are codependent, I can't get all my stuff done and don't have enough time to see you as much as we have been •I want to see other people. •i'll call you in a month when I forget this week and start to miss you; make sure you don't get another chick in the meantime •you are a bug-a-boo and I just wanna fuck you when I wanna fuck you. •we are through! •there's this fine guy at work I want to play 'hide the salami' with."
i need sum time •i'm waiting for the BBD - bigger better deal •i need to clear my head •time is necessary to figure out how to evolve this relationship •i'm gonna break up with you, just not today. •i cannot make up my mind on this immediately. Let me think it over. •i need to time to screw around and weigh my options before I make a commitment to this relationship •you are not quite who I wish you were; call ya for the holidays •like, forever
i really believe God sent you to me •iÕm telling you what you wanted to hear dammitÉ so NOW can I get some?
i'm dating sumone already(2 weeks after ya break up) •she was emotionally attached from ur ass a long time ago • she's the issue •you didnÕt really believe that I was gonna walk away without a backup plan did ya?
i'm married/involved, but I would really like to see you •i want some freaky-azzed sex on the dl that my wife/girlfriend wonÕt find out about. We have to meet on Tuesday night while sheÕs at bible study. IÕll need to park in the garage and I have to be gone by 9:30 so you better be ready.
it's not you, it's me •it's you •it's you •i can not quite lay my finger on it BUT this person has aspects that aren't good for me at this time in life and I still want to keep them as a friend or aquaintance as I end the intimate or relationship portion of the Story that was once US! •it's me. I don't want to be with you. Still my problem. •it may be them, but the bottom line is they want OUT! •just let it go •it is sooooo you •(... not feeling you) •this isn't working because I'm able to be objective about it • actually, it's both of us. We don't match, get it?
it's your responsibility too •demanding •Uh oh here it somes, ultimatums and stipulations.....rules, dammit! •just do what i say... •i'm tired of spending all my extra cash on condoms, bring your own next time! •in my humble opinion, you should... •it doesn't matter as much to me so you take care of _______ •i believe my unhappiness is your fault •depends on the topic but...don't put all the blame on me, it's easier for you to take a pill then for me to interrupt my groove and wear a condom. •you've been a complacent prick •to pay for the operation
i've been thinking •oh hell here comes the bad news •serious conversation up ahead •there is something that I have the deep desire to get off my chest so, you have to sit there and emotionally squirm until I tell you what it is •i wanna talk about something touchy... •somebody wants a DTR (discuss the relationship) just calling to see what's up - either they aren't ready to make a date, or it's an evasive way to start a booty call •i have been thinking •too much time on your hands •i want to have sex with you someday •you have to do _________ •i've been thinking differently about us •the issues have finally taken their toll
just calling to see what's up •i'm checking up on you •easy way to make plans together without it being a date •wanted to let you know that you were in my thoughts in a positive way •i wanna know if you're available for [fill in blank] •how are you, I was thinking about you. (If haven't seen in awhile) I miss you. OR I am just calling because I felt obligated, but don't really have anything to say. •booty call •why are you someplace other than with me? Here is your chance to invite me over •i'm relaxed with you and want to hang out •he's trying to play it cool although he truly likes you •his other five dates fell thru •his boys night fell thru
lets get together •physical equivalent to "i'll call you." •i want your body aka wants to fuck real quick •i want to see you soon, but NOT too soon •do you think you might wanna have sex with me? •i'd like to run into you, but without commiting to a date. •let's do something in the same place at the same time •get your groove on. •i like you and I want to see what you like to do for fun
lets keep it casual •i will never have a relationship with you •i want you in my life and I am not sure how to define it, friendship or Fuck-Buddy so stay tuned & we'll see •i find you unattractive •let's keep it casual •let's not get all mushy or attached. I am not interested in spending time with only you. •you do your thing and I'll do mine, or whatever is whatever... •i got a man or two •i only want sex •friends with benefits(FTF) •not ready for a ÒpublicÓ relationship
lets just be friends •i dig you, BUT not romantically and I want to keep you around so that I can explore you as a friend (because something about you makes me respect you and not want to FUCK you) •you gross me out •i want you to keep taking me out and buying me drinks but I want to be free to see other people. •if you just met: I am not attracted to you. After a relationship: I am not attracted to you anymore OR I don't want to be committed to you OR let's not date, but still be friends because I like you. •i don't want to put all my eggs in one basket •i never want to have sex with you •if I give you my number will you promise to call only once a year •i don't want sex •i think of you like a relative; you remind me of my Mom •i'm not diggin the acne on your back or you're a great fuck but lawd I didn't realize you had such bad hygiene or I'm not feeling your 4 children and the living with your ex thang. •lets just be friends, even if that may never work
let's try dating other people •i'd like to find someone better, but want to keep you on the line until I do •unless, of course, youÕre ready for that 3-some IÕve been worrying your azz aboutÉ
my mother called •i'm bailing •the bitch is still wondering why I am not married and thinks that I am becoming a lesbian •[some heavy sh*t's about to go down] •why are you mentioning your mama unless you want things to be more serious? •my mother called •you was on the phone with your ex and couldn't get off •i want to know why you don't want to get married, just like she does • if it is in the day, did she say to say hi if she remembers my name, if it is night, oh, no, busted (you do not want your man's Mom to think you are a tramp and they usually do anyhow)
rebound - damm a rebound, bring on a slam dunk •you are the transition man (woman)also known as the "tweener" (in between the breakup and the serious relationship) • psycho •when a relationship ends and you get back in the 'saddle' or 'swing' again! •i'm hoping my man/woman will come back, but i'll keep you for now •ya gotta time time to feel single again •hooking up immediately after a relationship just to make yourself feel better. You can tell if it is a rebound because the new person is usually EXACT opposite of old person. •thinking you all in love with someone you just met after coming out of a fucked up relationship •the last relationship ended badly and I need a new person to hold or punish (you can never know which; there is no way) •having sex with someone who is exactly the opposite of the person you were seeing •sex to piss off the ex and feel better about ones self •from one to the next...no down time •lets party •the only way to start getting over a broken heart
things are getting weird •i'm in love with you, and i'm scared of it... •i want out •things are moving too fast or going in a direction I don't want them to. •Moving to fast, slow it down... •insecure...always thinking the worst •you are weird •you called my best friend's house looking for me and now I can't remember why I started going out with you •when on the second date you are asked to wear a dog-collar and fishnets while reciting Shakespearean sonnets as he masturbates on your chest!" •we shouldn't have had sex •i'm dating you for the sex, there will be NO WEDDING.
we need to talk •things are getting weird •there is an issue that needs to be resolved •i wanna break up with you •somebody's about to say something unpleasant •here is a problem here and I am ready to discuss •things are not going the way you anticipated •i need to have an argument with you. • want to see other people; anybody but you •this has gone on long enough •look, I got blisters all over my shit....!!
we're you just looking at her or him? •somebody sounds a bit insecure about the appreciation of beauty •you don't want me anymore, do you? • am feeling insecure and need to think I'm the only honey on your radar •do you think she is prettier than me? •are you gay or bi-sexual... •i caught you so you may as well admit it •i saw you but will you lie about it? •i am paranoid like a junkie on a bad trip over here. •you said you WEREN'T bisexual!
what are you thinking? •want to know what is on your mind so I understand you and your point of view •do you wanna break up with me? •a nice direct way to ask someone to say what's on their mind •what are you thinking about right now? (and if you don't feel like telling me that is OK because you are allowed to have privacy) •you have stepped in it now
whats wrong with you? •means I know that my azz was wrongÉ but maybe I can intimidate you into apologizing for losing your mind when I didnÕt come home Ôtil 9am smelling like sex.
your not what i'm looking for •i don't know what that is, but you are not it. Or one of the following: you're ugly, you don't have a good job, you suck, you don't make enough money, i don't like your hoopty, etc. Strictly superficial. •so, what are you doing here? •you suck •you have aspects of that 'someone' but you just are NOT it baby •for whatever reason, I do not think you are not the right person for me. •realize that you have nothing in common •i respect you enough to at least be honest with you instead of using one of the above lines, so maybe I actually do want to be your friend. •i talked to you for a bit and found out you are [an undesirable trait (crazy, gullible, mean, a stalker, a Republican, a Communist, a tele-marketer, whatever it is for her)], Bye •dayum the guy I met in the elevator today is gonna rock my world when I get rid of your azzz!!! •but you don't have to leave just yet
you'll love my kids •looking for some help •she's dating to find a man •when and if you ever get a chance to meet ÔemÉ donÕt jump to conclusions here. I love ÔemÉ doesnÕt mean IÕm gonna let you use them to get to me. For realÉ you WILL love Ôem if we get that far.
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